A limiter is designed to crush any peaks in your audio waveform. Every db of peak reduction of loud signals equates to a db of volume increase of quieter signals.
In other words, you would use a limiter (aka a high-ratio, fast attack compressor) to make the loud parts quieter and the soft parts louder. This is exactly what you describe above.
The limiter, with its fast attack and ruthless, brickwall threshold is killing the snare transients because your snare is a relatively loud component of your mix. The loud snare peaks are being squashed and subsequently, the quieter reverb trails are more apparent.
You might try a remix with this in mind. Or, on the other hand, try less aggressive settings with your limiter. It is very easy to overdo it with digital limiters.
I think you now know that there can be TOO MUCH of a good thing.



