Amen Brother!
Since my posting, I have found a few interesting sites I would like to share.
Stereofame - Create a Virtual Record Label & Compete for Rewards - This is a point system. the more activity you perform (leave a message, invite a friend, review a song), the more point you get. You get points as well if people review your music.
At least here, to review, the person reviewing does not HAVE to leave a comment. It is a thumbs up or down. Either they like it or not.
New music - Listen & Judge Country, Christian, Rap, Rock & More | OurStage.com - this is a battle of the band. I just joined so I do not have any personal feedback yet.
good luck everyone.
keep writing and recording