[MetalDave]

I have had the same problem my whole life. If you really want to start a band, you should go to your local Music store and post a notice that you are auditioning singers. If you play guitar that should be all you need to audition any singer. Also post what kind of music you will be playing and your age and how serious you are. These things don't happen over night. Also just like you wanting to quit the band you are in, you will have to deal with people wanting to quit your band. Remember also there are 40 - 60 year olds that make big money at music still. But they didn't do it by quitting bands and trying to start new ones all the time. You will never find 3 or 4 other guys who are going to agree with everything you say. You will have to give and take or it will never happen for you. Good luck...